Opinion: What makes best friends, “best – friends”

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If there is a question that asks me about “who is your bestfriend is?”
I do really can’t tell, for me is kind of difficult question to answer,
mostly, because this is a really sensitive topic for me.

Well, having friends or making friendship with everyone is easy and that’s not really a problem for me too, I’m the type who can easily making friends with each other around my age, despite that I’m somehow a timid person and having a difficult time to approach a new people first.

And don’t get me wrong perception about being friends and just acquaintances there’s a really different line between them, and I don’t really need to explain it, do I? basically there are three significant factors to make friends first one is proximity, which means being near enough to see each other or do things together and then, repeatedly encountering the person informally and without making special plans to see each other the last one is opportunities to share ideas and personal feelings with each other – as it quoted from wiki

But for me, to find best friend is rather difficult…

way…..difficult to emphasize it, moreover for people who not really open up about their own self.
Everyone have their own way to describe what best friends is

Yet, for me best friend is the one who will show you their true selves and with you they will share their deep secrets and once you know it you will try to learn and accepting their flaws, vice versa. That’s what I think shape a friend as a best friend.

But, you know… everything need a time, no one will become best friend for instant right, not the superficial ones at least. To accept their flaws, their personality, their habits or even intolerable habits, what they like and what they don’t like.

I’ve always remind myself, that is not about how long you’ve been know each other and how much you spending times with them but it’s about how you not giving up to understand each other, which the whole process on it is the thing you should really proud of, when you able to change someone and change for someone.

For short adjusting for each other

Being best friend doesn’t mean that you need to have the same opinions about everything is about how you try and learn to respect them and vice versa, a best friend won’t judge upon your mistakes, a best friend are always be the one who will genuine to you so don’t expect about they will always say good things about you or they will always agree with you (who does anyway)

they will say truthfully about what they feeling toward you for your own good, they won’t giving you crap sweet talk covered with honey for your liking.

Remember, no friendship is perfect there will always the time when one of you will mess the friendship, but it would only didn’t work if you don’t try to understand each other and gain trust to withstand with the problems no matter what, and each of us won’t become the best for nothing isn’t it.

You’re my best friend and I happy to have you 

 Thankyou, Goodnight <3 

Opinion: Out from your comfort zone

Have you ever feel so suffocated in one place or condition where you always have to be there? 

The feel like you want to letting go the pressuring aura and the stressed feeling around you because you have to be there like every day, take an example like when you are in a clique or a group of friends that you always go hanging out with them almost every time.

Truly you will ended up so attaching with them since you guys getting out and doing lot of things most of the time and do all the fun parts, sharing stories and jokes and everything, isn’t the feeling is amazing? That you have these friends to play with you?

But what will happen, if in other times there’s trouble occurred in this friendship? It might be really okay if it’s happen once or twice isn’t it? (Oh, come on there’s no friendship without flaws isn’t it? I do believe  when the time come there will be misunderstand or miscommunicate happen in a way) and once you and your friends settled it back, everything will be alright and come back to normal or your friendship will way stronger than before. That what’s usually things works in a healthy friendship.

Make Up: NIVEA Lip Balm Series

Hello, how many days since the last time I've promised that I will do some updates on my blog? Hahaha sorry can't keep it up on my promise :( (busy schedules, and blah blah blah) so anyway I've decided to write 6 updates at the time but I'm sure it will be too much in one go isn't it?

So for starter for this July, let's do a little bit make up review again :) this time - lip balm !

Lips is an important part of human face /? so that's why putting on a lip balm to keep your lips moisturized and prevent them from dryness is necessary. Because the skin on the lips is like none other on your body. It has no sebaceous glands, which means that it cannot make its own oils to keep it moisturized. It also has no melanin, which gives it no natural protection from the sun. The skin on the lips is also much finer than the skin that covers the rest of the body, which is why it can become chapped and peels so easily.