If there is a question that asks me about “who is your
bestfriend is?”
I do really can’t tell, for me is kind of difficult question to answer,
mostly, because this is a really sensitive topic for me.
I do really can’t tell, for me is kind of difficult question to answer,
mostly, because this is a really sensitive topic for me.
Well, having friends or making friendship with everyone is
easy and that’s not really a problem for me too, I’m the type who can easily
making friends with each other around my age, despite that I’m somehow a timid
person and having a difficult time to approach a new people first.
And don’t get me wrong perception about being friends and
just acquaintances there’s a really different line between them, and I don’t
really need to explain it, do I? basically there are three significant factors
to make friends first one is proximity, which means being near enough to see each
other or do things together and then, repeatedly encountering the person
informally and without making special plans to see each other the last one is opportunities
to share ideas and personal feelings with each other – as it quoted from wiki
But for me, to find best friend is rather difficult…
way…..difficult to emphasize it, moreover for people who not really open up
about their own self.
Everyone have their own way to describe what best friends is
Everyone have their own way to describe what best friends is
Yet, for me best friend is the one who will show you their
true selves and with you they will share their deep secrets and once you know
it you will try to learn and accepting their flaws, vice versa. That’s what I
think shape a friend as a best friend.
But, you know… everything need a time, no one will become
best friend for instant right, not the superficial ones at least. To accept
their flaws, their personality, their habits or even intolerable habits, what
they like and what they don’t like.
I’ve always remind myself, that is not about how long you’ve
been know each other and how much you spending times with them but it’s about
how you not giving up to understand each other, which the whole process on it is
the thing you should really proud of, when you able to change someone and
change for someone.
For short adjusting for each other
Being best friend doesn’t mean that you need to have the
same opinions about everything is about how you try and learn to respect them
and vice versa, a best friend won’t judge upon your mistakes, a best friend are
always be the one who will genuine to you so don’t expect about they will
always say good things about you or they will always agree with you (who does
anyway)
they will say truthfully about what they feeling toward you for your
own good, they won’t giving you crap sweet talk covered with honey for your
liking.
Remember, no friendship is perfect there will always the
time when one of you will mess the friendship, but it would only didn’t work if
you don’t try to understand each other and gain trust to withstand with the
problems no matter what, and each of us won’t become the best for nothing isn’t
it.
You’re my best friend and I happy to have you 
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